The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 18, 19 and 20) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 18 March 1963

Abdol is also at Tehran University. He didn’t get into law, but is studying geography. He has asked Homa to marry him and been refused. She doesn’t want to ever marry.

Homa is getting more political. She isn’t going to the Chahar Shanbeh as she has a meeting to go to (Communist meeting). Afarin (remember her) has also joined the organisation.

“She’s seen the light, Ellie. She’s sick of our westoxification”.

Afarin is translating, from English, an edition of Trotskyite journal into Persian. Ellie os offended that she wasn’t asked and insists that she does it.

Just keep it quiet. Remember, this is contraband material in the government’s eyes. Don’t show anyone.

I have a feeling it is all going to go pear-shaped.

Chapter 19 March 1963

It’s the Tuesday before the spring equinox (Iranian New Year). Bon fires are lit. It’s a tradition to jump over the fires “to release bad energy and bring in goodness and vitality for the new year”.

Mehrdad convinces Ellie to try the big fire – “the mother of bon fires”.

While waiting in line, Homa shows up and they do it together.

(Is this a metaphor for them rushing into disaster?)

The final sentence is ominious.

Unaware that it would be our last.

Chapter 20 November 1963

Third Year University

Sousan is hosting Niloo’s engagement party. Sousan already has a toddler and a baby. She got married as soon as high school finished. Even Homa is planning on going in a dress borrowed from Ellie.

A week before the party Homa and Ellie are studying. Homa to quote Ellie wants to ‘discuss’, i.e. not really study.

She thinks the White Revolution was hypocritical. It did give votes to women, but there is no criticism of the Shah and he has secret police. The communist party is planning a protest.

The previous June there were riots.

People poured into the streets in support of a religious cleric, Ayatollah Khomeni, who had spoken up against these reforms.

Ellie is tired of it all. She wants her life to be devoid of politics. She even talks about giving herself over to her husband. She walks out, Homa is confused.

The protest goes ahead, but Ellie avoids it. Abdol is there (Homa said she would go for a walk with him).

Ellie decides the friendship is worth saving and she will apologise at Niloo’s party.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 15, 16 and 17) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 15 1960 October

Homa and Ellie meet at the bottom of the Alborz Mountain. It’s a beautiful day and lots of people are preparing to hike.

Homa is taken with the beauty and fresh air.

She admits that she doesn’t always work on a Friday sometimes she goes to the mosque. After he father went to prison her mother found religion.

[…] The world is ours. We stood there our heads touching. What she [Homa] said was absurd. The world was vast and broken and filled with strife. The world was chaotic and owned by men. Not by us.

Chapter 16 1960 October

Homa and Ellie join Mehrdad and his friend Abdol (also new from “downtown” – what is Mehrdad thinking?).

They eat and Homa gets the idea that they are trying to set her up with Abdol. She reacts with terrible table manners.

No offense to him; he was a nice obviously serious and studious fellow. But don’t try to set me up Ellie. I have my studies. I have my maman. I have Sara. And Ali Reza. I don’t need a boy. I am on a course, Ellie. I have plans. I certainly hope my rude eating put him off for good. I don’t have time for this nonsense.

She (Homa) did look into Mehrdad’s eyes and decided that he is a good man, Ellie will be happy. She makes a point of saying Ellie will be happy implying that she wouldn’t be happy.

Chapter 17 1961-1963

The pace of the story is picking up (finally).

Ellie, Homa and Mehrdad are all at Tehran University. Ellie is studying English and Literature, Homa Law and Mehrdad Chemistry.

In their second year Mehrdad takes Ellie to a “chelo kababi” (Dinner). He wants to talk about their future. He proposes, but he wants the wedding to be after they have graduated. Then he will get a stipend and they can get a place of their own.

Then it is the formal asking for permission to marry. Her mother has a bit of a moment – Ellie is her only child.

“She is mine”

The mother is also worried about the evil eye.

I sank further into the sofa. Wishing I could escape from the world the concept of an evil eye. Wishing I didn’t constantly have to worry about others jinxing me.

“Even those who love you the most can ruin your life, you know Ellie”, Mother said. “Even the ones you trust the most”

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South Riding – Winifred Holtby

South Riding – Winifred Holtby

I watched the 2011 TV adaptation (which is great), then I read a paper copy, and now I have listened to it. Clearly a bit of a favourite.

Here’s the blurb …

Winifred Holtby’s masterpiece is a rich evocation of the lives and relationships of the characters of South Riding. Sarah Burton, the fiery young headmistress of the local girls’ school; Mrs Beddows, the district’s first alderwoman—based on Holtby’s own mother; and Robert Carne, the conservative gentleman-farmer locked in a disastrous marriage—with whom the radical Sarah Burton falls in love. Showing how public decisions can mold the individual, this story offers a panoramic and unforgettable view of Yorkshire life.

I really enjoyed this novel. I think it shows a slice of rural life in England between the wars. The machinations of the local council, the living conditions of the poor (lack of sanitation, not to mention birth control), the lack of welfare services (I am thinking of Lydia having to leave school to look after her siblings after her mother dies), but there is also community spirit and a hope that things will improve.

A review and more about Winifred Holtby.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 12, 13 and 14) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 12 1960 September

Homa and Ellie buy lunch together at the famed Cafe Andre and eat in the park. Ellie learns that Homa’s father is in prison. The rest of the family have jobs to make ends meet.

Their relationship is just like it was before.

Chapter 13 1960 October

Everyone likes Homa. She wants to change the world for better, particularly for women. Ellie also wants the world to change but she wants someone else to do it.

Ellie attends a party at Afarin’s house (Her beehive is as large as a cantaloup). Mehrdad is there, they dance together. Ellie is not sure if university is for her – maybe she will just get married. Homa opens the world for her, but makes her feel less than. Mehrdad also opens the world for her but he makes her feel more than.

Knowing what happens in Iran to women makes this chapter hard to read. Homa with her ambition to be a judge and to improve the status of women.

Chapter 14 1960 October

Ellie and Homa have lunch together. Homa wants to be Mehrdad properly, to look into his soul and see if he is right for Ellie.

Homa confesses that she is indifferent to relationships.

Ellie is planning on taking the exams and attending uni. Mehrdad has made it clear that he will marry a woman with a university degree. It is obvious from the conversation that she is only doing it to be with Mehrdad. She mentions hiking in the mountains Friday mornings (as a reason to attend university). Mehrdad already does this with his school mates. Homa makes a plan. They will also hike on a Friday and she will meet Merhdad.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 9, 10 and 11) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

I haven’t been very good about updating my blog – in ‘real’ time, I am up to chapter 46, but I have been writing my summaries.

Part Two

Chapter 9 Late Summer 1960

Ellie is seventeen. She is in her final year at school. She’s popular and beautiful (her words). She’s met the boy her will become her husband.

The coup d’état in 1953 has made no difference to them.

And Homa? They did write and met twice. Ellie’s mother wouldn’t allow them in the house and it was too hard for a ten year old to go ‘downtown’. Ellie wore the necklace for three years.

Ellie is worried about Homa’s father during the coup (he is a communist).

She thinks her mother and uncle love one another.

I promised so that she’d stop lecturing more than anything else. But like the embers of a fire, her words nestled into the crevices of my body. I internalised them and grew to believe that I needed to protect what was rightfully mine. Why shouldn’t I have it all? I deserved the best.

Chapter 10 Spring 1960

This is a flashback to when Ellie met Mehrdad. They were in Year 11. It was the Iranian new year (they celebrate it on the Spring Equinox). On day 13 everyone heads to the outdoors, parks etc.

For the celebration Ellie grew lentils. Now she needs to tie the blades together, drop it in the river, and wish for a husband.

Mehrdad is at the river’s edge and they chat.

Chapter 11 1960 September

We are at Ellie’s school. There is a queen bee Afarin, Ellie wants her power.

A new student is joining the school – Homa!

Homa is the same – confident and enthusiastic. Ellie is mortified. Homa tells a rambling story about how her and Ellie are ‘bestest’ friends. Afarin loves, and following her lead, so do others. Ellie tries to leave for lunch quickly, but Homa catches up. She joins them for lunch and wins over Ellie’s friends. Ellie’s better side emerges.

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Read Yourself Happy – Daisy Buchanan

Read Yourself Happy – Daisy Buchanan

I always like a reading memoir and I follow Daisy on substack. Clearly, I was going to want this book.

Here’s the blurb …

Daisy Buchanan doesn’t have the answer – but she’s found something to soothe her incessant questioning. When Daisy first felt worry consume her as a child, she turned to the wonder of reading. Somehow, as a grown-up (or a person trying to be one) she turned to food, alcohol and online shopping instead, but these momentary highs made her feel lower still. Eventually diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder, she returned to reading and soon discovered that losing herself in a good book helped her find so much her confidence through characters, her sexuality through racy romps and more and more peace with every page.

In READ YOURSELF HAPPY, Daisy Buchanan – writer, broadcaster and host of the You’re Booked podcast – combines her own journey, the wisdom of the characters, writers and literary worlds she has loved and the advice of experts to help you read yourself calmer, read yourself romantic, read yourself free from addiction and so much more. This book will help you form one of the healthiest habits you already have at your fingertips.

This was a really personal journey about reading and how books can heal us and help us in a myriad of ways – show us different ways of living and being.

A review.

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Clouds of Witnesses – Dorothy L Sayers

Clouds of Witnesses – Dorothy L Sayers

I enjoyed the first Peter Wimsey story, so when I was looking for something easy to listen to (after Villette), I chose this one. I am very keen to get to Gaudy Night, but that is book number 10.

Here’s the blurb …

Rustic old Riddlesdale Lodge was a Wimsey family retreat filled with country pleasures and the thrill of the hunt — until the game turned up human and quite dead. He lay among the chrysanthemums, wore slippers and a dinner jacket and was Lord Peter’s brother-in-law-to-be. His accused murderer was Wimsey’s own brother, and if murder set all in the family wasn’t enough to boggle the unflappable Lord Wimsey, perhaps a few twists of fate would be — a mysterious vanishing midnight letter from Egypt…a grieving fiancee with suitcase in hand…and a bullet destined for one very special Wimsey.

I love everything about these novels. The settings, the language, the way of life, the characters – Lord Peter, Bunter and Inspector Parker (clearly in love with Lady Mary). I like how the crimes are solved. But it’s not just a cozy mystery they have some emotional heft to them.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 7 and 8) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 7 1953 May and June

The girls get a detention. Ellie wins ‘first in class’. There is a crowning ceremony and a lunch. She excitedly tells her mother who is calmly (icily) happy for her, but seems more interested in the fact that Ellie won’t be home for lunch.

After the crowning ceremony the girls get the afternoon off. Ellie returns unexpectedly to the house to find her mother in bed with her uncle (I thought this was going to happen).

Is the mother doing this because she thinks this is the only way she can saw Ellie?

Chapter 8 1953 June

The mother and Uncle Massoud are getting married and they are all moving ‘uptown’.

Ellie asks her mother why she accepted him when she use to say that she couldn’t stand him.

You sacrifice yourself for others.

She has to say goodbye to Homa. Homa gives her a necklace with a Homa bird pendant. Ellie gives Homa a notebook.

She is desperately unhappy about the move.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 4,5 and 6) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter Four – October 1950

Ellie goes to Homa’s house after school. Ellie’s mother won’t have Homa in her house (I tell you this woman is awful).

Homa’s mother is lovely. Homa has a baby sister Sarah. They play hopscotch, jump rope and eat amazing pastries. Ellie wants Homa’s life, she is jealous of her.

Chapter Five – November 1950

Ellie and Homa become firm friends. Homa’s mother teaches them how to cook. At home Ellie’s mother is letting her do more cooking.

Ellie can’t understand how Homa’s family can afford so much food. It turns out that Homa’s father is the head waiter at a restaurant and he brings home the excess.

Chapter 6 May 1953

We’ve jumped in time (thankfully it was beginning to feel a bit slow). Both girls are doing well at school. They have skipped a grade.

Towards the end of the year Homa convinces Ellie to skip school. The go to the Grand Bazaar and eat ice cream and have nuts. They return for lunch at home.

Ellie’s mother knows she has skipped school – they were seen by one of the neighbours. There is a nasty argument about Homa.

[…] her father waits on people all day like a servant. Her mother is illiterate. They are vermin in the alley, my dear. They are nobodies who come from nobodies.

Ellie responds with

So the fact that you are his descendent [the qajar king] basically makes you the great-grand daughter of a whore.

Something is brewing. This chapter marks a turning point for the mother. She seems to have made a decision (is she going to marry Uncle Massoud?)

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 3) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Remember lots of spoilers.

Chapter Three 1950

Ellie starts school. She walks herself to school following the directions of Uncle Massoud (is her mother depressed? sad? or just useless). She is hoping to meet an amazing girl who will become her best friend. She just meets an annoying girl.

Five weeks later, on a Wednesday, she is heading home for lunch (they get 2 hours!). Her mother makes her pick the stones and grit out of the rice (apparently the mother’s eyes don’t work very well from all of the crying). And then the mother is too tired to prepare anything else, so they have rice and yogurt. On the way back to school she meets the annoying girl, Homa, who, after calling her a donkey asks her to play – hopscotch, 5 stones. They race back to school (Ellie enjoys the running).

This is still a setting the scene chapter. Homa has just been introduced, any sympathy for the mother is declining and Uncle Massoud is taking at least minimal care of them.

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