I started this book so many times. I bought it as a kobo and I would start to read it whenever I was out and about with only my phone. I finally dedicated some time to it while I was on holiday.
Here’s the blurb …
Please be aware I am writing to you to make sense of myself …
When the curator of a Danish museum responds to a query about ancient exhibits, he doesn’t expect a reply.
When Tina Hopgood first wrote it, nor did she …
Professor Anders Larsen, an urbane man of facts, has lost his wife, along with his hopes and dreams for the future. He does not know that a query from a Mrs Tina Hopgood about a world-famous antiquity in his museum is about to alter the course of his life.
Oceans apart, an unexpected correspondence flourishes as they discover shared passions: for history and nature; for useless objects left behind by loved ones; for the ancient and modern world, what is lost in time, what is gained and what has stayed the same. Through intimate stories of joy, anguish, and discovery, each one bares their soul to the other. But when Tina’s letters suddenly cease, Anders is thrown into despair. Can this unlikely friendship survive?
This is an epistolary novel, which I always enjoy. It is a series of letters between Tina and Anders in which they share parts of their lives and (maybe) fall in love. The novel starts with them noticing the differences between where they live and the lives they lead, but then they start to offer each other advice and they both begin to pay attention to their surroundings and the people in their lives. It’s about choices and the sacrifices required by those choices, but it is also about making new choices and changing direction.
There is a lovely metaphor about walking along picking raspberries and then looking back and seeing how many raspberries you didn’t see the first time, but you can walk in the opposite direction and pick the ones you miss.
The writing is beautiful – gentle and thoughtful.









