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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 18, 19 and 20) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 18 March 1963

Abdol is also at Tehran University. He didn’t get into law, but is studying geography. He has asked Homa to marry him and been refused. She doesn’t want to ever marry.

Homa is getting more political. She isn’t going to the Chahar Shanbeh as she has a meeting to go to (Communist meeting). Afarin (remember her) has also joined the organisation.

“She’s seen the light, Ellie. She’s sick of our westoxification”.

Afarin is translating, from English, an edition of Trotskyite journal into Persian. Ellie os offended that she wasn’t asked and insists that she does it.

Just keep it quiet. Remember, this is contraband material in the government’s eyes. Don’t show anyone.

I have a feeling it is all going to go pear-shaped.

Chapter 19 March 1963

It’s the Tuesday before the spring equinox (Iranian New Year). Bon fires are lit. It’s a tradition to jump over the fires “to release bad energy and bring in goodness and vitality for the new year”.

Mehrdad convinces Ellie to try the big fire – “the mother of bon fires”.

While waiting in line, Homa shows up and they do it together.

(Is this a metaphor for them rushing into disaster?)

The final sentence is ominious.

Unaware that it would be our last.

Chapter 20 November 1963

Third Year University

Sousan is hosting Niloo’s engagement party. Sousan already has a toddler and a baby. She got married as soon as high school finished. Even Homa is planning on going in a dress borrowed from Ellie.

A week before the party Homa and Ellie are studying. Homa to quote Ellie wants to ‘discuss’, i.e. not really study.

She thinks the White Revolution was hypocritical. It did give votes to women, but there is no criticism of the Shah and he has secret police. The communist party is planning a protest.

The previous June there were riots.

People poured into the streets in support of a religious cleric, Ayatollah Khomeni, who had spoken up against these reforms.

Ellie is tired of it all. She wants her life to be devoid of politics. She even talks about giving herself over to her husband. She walks out, Homa is confused.

The protest goes ahead, but Ellie avoids it. Abdol is there (Homa said she would go for a walk with him).

Ellie decides the friendship is worth saving and she will apologise at Niloo’s party.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 12, 13 and 14) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 12 1960 September

Homa and Ellie buy lunch together at the famed Cafe Andre and eat in the park. Ellie learns that Homa’s father is in prison. The rest of the family have jobs to make ends meet.

Their relationship is just like it was before.

Chapter 13 1960 October

Everyone likes Homa. She wants to change the world for better, particularly for women. Ellie also wants the world to change but she wants someone else to do it.

Ellie attends a party at Afarin’s house (Her beehive is as large as a cantaloup). Mehrdad is there, they dance together. Ellie is not sure if university is for her – maybe she will just get married. Homa opens the world for her, but makes her feel less than. Mehrdad also opens the world for her but he makes her feel more than.

Knowing what happens in Iran to women makes this chapter hard to read. Homa with her ambition to be a judge and to improve the status of women.

Chapter 14 1960 October

Ellie and Homa have lunch together. Homa wants to be Mehrdad properly, to look into his soul and see if he is right for Ellie.

Homa confesses that she is indifferent to relationships.

Ellie is planning on taking the exams and attending uni. Mehrdad has made it clear that he will marry a woman with a university degree. It is obvious from the conversation that she is only doing it to be with Mehrdad. She mentions hiking in the mountains Friday mornings (as a reason to attend university). Mehrdad already does this with his school mates. Homa makes a plan. They will also hike on a Friday and she will meet Merhdad.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapters 9, 10 and 11) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

I haven’t been very good about updating my blog – in ‘real’ time, I am up to chapter 46, but I have been writing my summaries.

Part Two

Chapter 9 Late Summer 1960

Ellie is seventeen. She is in her final year at school. She’s popular and beautiful (her words). She’s met the boy her will become her husband.

The coup d’état in 1953 has made no difference to them.

And Homa? They did write and met twice. Ellie’s mother wouldn’t allow them in the house and it was too hard for a ten year old to go ‘downtown’. Ellie wore the necklace for three years.

Ellie is worried about Homa’s father during the coup (he is a communist).

She thinks her mother and uncle love one another.

I promised so that she’d stop lecturing more than anything else. But like the embers of a fire, her words nestled into the crevices of my body. I internalised them and grew to believe that I needed to protect what was rightfully mine. Why shouldn’t I have it all? I deserved the best.

Chapter 10 Spring 1960

This is a flashback to when Ellie met Mehrdad. They were in Year 11. It was the Iranian new year (they celebrate it on the Spring Equinox). On day 13 everyone heads to the outdoors, parks etc.

For the celebration Ellie grew lentils. Now she needs to tie the blades together, drop it in the river, and wish for a husband.

Mehrdad is at the river’s edge and they chat.

Chapter 11 1960 September

We are at Ellie’s school. There is a queen bee Afarin, Ellie wants her power.

A new student is joining the school – Homa!

Homa is the same – confident and enthusiastic. Ellie is mortified. Homa tells a rambling story about how her and Ellie are ‘bestest’ friends. Afarin loves, and following her lead, so do others. Ellie tries to leave for lunch quickly, but Homa catches up. She joins them for lunch and wins over Ellie’s friends. Ellie’s better side emerges.

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Read Yourself Happy – Daisy Buchanan

Read Yourself Happy – Daisy Buchanan

I always like a reading memoir and I follow Daisy on substack. Clearly, I was going to want this book.

Here’s the blurb …

Daisy Buchanan doesn’t have the answer – but she’s found something to soothe her incessant questioning. When Daisy first felt worry consume her as a child, she turned to the wonder of reading. Somehow, as a grown-up (or a person trying to be one) she turned to food, alcohol and online shopping instead, but these momentary highs made her feel lower still. Eventually diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder, she returned to reading and soon discovered that losing herself in a good book helped her find so much her confidence through characters, her sexuality through racy romps and more and more peace with every page.

In READ YOURSELF HAPPY, Daisy Buchanan – writer, broadcaster and host of the You’re Booked podcast – combines her own journey, the wisdom of the characters, writers and literary worlds she has loved and the advice of experts to help you read yourself calmer, read yourself romantic, read yourself free from addiction and so much more. This book will help you form one of the healthiest habits you already have at your fingertips.

This was a really personal journey about reading and how books can heal us and help us in a myriad of ways – show us different ways of living and being.

A review.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 7 and 8) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter 7 1953 May and June

The girls get a detention. Ellie wins ‘first in class’. There is a crowning ceremony and a lunch. She excitedly tells her mother who is calmly (icily) happy for her, but seems more interested in the fact that Ellie won’t be home for lunch.

After the crowning ceremony the girls get the afternoon off. Ellie returns unexpectedly to the house to find her mother in bed with her uncle (I thought this was going to happen).

Is the mother doing this because she thinks this is the only way she can saw Ellie?

Chapter 8 1953 June

The mother and Uncle Massoud are getting married and they are all moving ‘uptown’.

Ellie asks her mother why she accepted him when she use to say that she couldn’t stand him.

You sacrifice yourself for others.

She has to say goodbye to Homa. Homa gives her a necklace with a Homa bird pendant. Ellie gives Homa a notebook.

She is desperately unhappy about the move.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 4,5 and 6) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Chapter Four – October 1950

Ellie goes to Homa’s house after school. Ellie’s mother won’t have Homa in her house (I tell you this woman is awful).

Homa’s mother is lovely. Homa has a baby sister Sarah. They play hopscotch, jump rope and eat amazing pastries. Ellie wants Homa’s life, she is jealous of her.

Chapter Five – November 1950

Ellie and Homa become firm friends. Homa’s mother teaches them how to cook. At home Ellie’s mother is letting her do more cooking.

Ellie can’t understand how Homa’s family can afford so much food. It turns out that Homa’s father is the head waiter at a restaurant and he brings home the excess.

Chapter 6 May 1953

We’ve jumped in time (thankfully it was beginning to feel a bit slow). Both girls are doing well at school. They have skipped a grade.

Towards the end of the year Homa convinces Ellie to skip school. The go to the Grand Bazaar and eat ice cream and have nuts. They return for lunch at home.

Ellie’s mother knows she has skipped school – they were seen by one of the neighbours. There is a nasty argument about Homa.

[…] her father waits on people all day like a servant. Her mother is illiterate. They are vermin in the alley, my dear. They are nobodies who come from nobodies.

Ellie responds with

So the fact that you are his descendent [the qajar king] basically makes you the great-grand daughter of a whore.

Something is brewing. This chapter marks a turning point for the mother. She seems to have made a decision (is she going to marry Uncle Massoud?)

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 3) – Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Remember lots of spoilers.

Chapter Three 1950

Ellie starts school. She walks herself to school following the directions of Uncle Massoud (is her mother depressed? sad? or just useless). She is hoping to meet an amazing girl who will become her best friend. She just meets an annoying girl.

Five weeks later, on a Wednesday, she is heading home for lunch (they get 2 hours!). Her mother makes her pick the stones and grit out of the rice (apparently the mother’s eyes don’t work very well from all of the crying). And then the mother is too tired to prepare anything else, so they have rice and yogurt. On the way back to school she meets the annoying girl, Homa, who, after calling her a donkey asks her to play – hopscotch, 5 stones. They race back to school (Ellie enjoys the running).

This is still a setting the scene chapter. Homa has just been introduced, any sympathy for the mother is declining and Uncle Massoud is taking at least minimal care of them.

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The Lion Women of Tehran (Chapter 2)- Marjan Kamali

The Lion Women of Tehran – Marjan Kamali

Right chapter two.

I was right – we have returned to the past.

It’s 1950, Ellie is 7 and her dad has just died from tuberculosis.

Her uncle (father’s brother) makes them move out of their mansion and into an apartment in the ‘slums’. There is an implication that this move is a punishment because Ellie’s mother has refused to marry him.

Ellie is going to start school and she is hoping to make friends.

We learn her mother is descended from Qajar royalty.

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Young Queens – Leah Redmond Chang

Young Queens – Leah Redmond Chang

This was long listed for the Women’s Prize for non-fiction in 2024. I promptly bought it and I have just finished it.

Here’s the blurb …

The gripping story of three young women who came of age and into power in a world dominated by men.

Orphaned from infancy, Catherine de’Medici endured a tumultuous childhood. Married to King Henry II of France, she was widowed by forty, only to become the power behind the throne during a period of intense civil strife. In 1546 Catherine gave birth to a daughter, Elisabeth de Valois, who would become Queen of Spain. Two years later Catherine welcomed to her nursery the beguiling young Mary, Queen of Scots, who would become her daughter-in-law.

These years at the French court bound Catherine, Elisabeth and Mary to one another through blood and marriage, alliance and friendship, love and filial piety – bonds that were tested when they were forced to part and take on new roles in different kingdoms. As queens, they lived through the sea changes that transformed sixteenth century Europe; a time of expanding empires, religious discord and popular revolt. They would learn that to rule was to wage a constant war against the deeply entrenched attitudes of their time. A crown could exalt a young women equally it could destroy her.

This was fascinating. I already knew a bit about Mary, Queen of Scots, having read Embroidering Her Truth by Clare Hunter, and I had heard of Catherine de’Medici (and I have watched a bit of The Serpent Queen), but I had never even heard of Elizabeth de Valois.

This book has a nice easy style (conversational almost), not burdened by jargon. The writing is good and the events so compelling, and sometimes exciting, it’s like reading an historical fiction novel.

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The Wedding People – Alison Espach

Wedding People – Alison Espach

I reserved this at the library, it took about a year for it to be my turn, but once I got started, I knew I needed my own copy.

Here is the blurb …

Phoebe Stone arrives at a grand beachside hotel in Rhode Island wearing her best dress and her least comfortable shoes. Immediately she is mistaken for one of the wedding people – but she is actually the only guest at the Cornwall Inn who isn’t here for the big event.

When the bride discovers her elaborate destination wedding could be ruined by a divorced and depressed stranger, she is furious. Lila has spent months accounting for every detail and every possible disaster – except for, well, Phoebe… Soon both women find their best laid plans derailed and an unlikely confidante in one another.

I have been trialing a new approach to reading – to ensure that I am actually taking things in – I have been writing chapter summaries (after reading each chapter twice) along with my thoughts and comments.

A snapshot of my summaries (I am using OneNote)

It did occur to me when I got to the end of this novel that I should have uploaded my summaries one at a time – or at least my thoughts on that chapter. Don’t worry, I am not going to inflict them all on you now.

This novel resonanted with me, the characters were incredibly life-like in all of their messy, kind and ordinary ways.

It was about honesty – being honest with ourselves and others. About having the confidence to choose the bigger life rather than drifting.

Phoebe is devasted by her divorce (to the point of suicide). She realises over the days of the wedding (yes days!) that her life has been contained – always trying to do the right thing, and to not be too much. When she no longer cares what people think she starts speaking her truth. I think many women would identify with this – trying to be good, all things to all people.

Lila wants the wedding to be perfect because then her life, and her marriage will be perfect.

And Gary? Well he’s just standing by letting Lila make all of the plans.

There are some funny moments and some very poignant ones.

All in all a very satisfying novel.

Some of my favourite quotes

Her whole life felt like work now. Even the parts that used to be the most fun, like reading over the summer or orgasming during sex or having conversations with her husband at dinner. They felt like things she had to be really good at now, in order to prove that everything was normal.

“I don’t know. It’s just what I believe,” Phoebe says. One of the few things Nietzsche wrote that she agreed with in graduate school. “Seems more plausible that Hell is some revenge fantasy concocted by unhappy people so they could punish all the happy people in their minds.”

But that is how it happens, she realises. One moment of pretending to be great leads to the next moment of pretending to be great, and ten years later, she realises she has spent her entire life just pretending to be great.

She doesn’t have to be anything, ever. Her husband is not watching. Her father is not watching. Nobody was ever really watching, except Phoebe. Phoebe was the only person waiting in the dark to condemn herself for every single thing when the day was over.

And it was perfect. It really was. But life is strange, always thinking this one thing is going to make you happy, because then you get it, and then maybe you’re not as happy as you imagined you would be, because every day is still just every day. Like the happiness becomes so big, you have no choice but to live inside of it, until you can no longer see it or feel it. And so you start to fixate on something else – you want a child, and then the child is here, and that happiness is so big, it begins to feel like nothing. Like just the air around you.

You do things in the moment for the person you hope you might be two years from now. You don’t kill yourself when you’re sad because one day you might not be sad, and you might want to go surfing with a man you really like?

To collect is to care more than most. But it is also to hoard. To take things out of the world and make them only yours.

A review.

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